Adeyemi, 29, was engaged to Tomi, 26, in a three years relationship, but the relationship deteriorated when Adeyemi caught Tomi cheating on him with a sex toy.
In this interview, Adeyemi shares his story; their encounter, and his pain.
Hope you’re ready for the rideeeeee 🛫
Hi Adeyemi! Hope you’re good
Hello! Thanks for asking about my well-being but I’m not too good, because I’m about to share one of my saddest moments with you.
It was a relationship that broke my heart.
Hmm… It must have really been a lot. Please tell us about this relationship
I met this babe in one of the speaking gigs I was invited to be a panelist. She was also a panelist.
She is a social media marketer, and I’m a Web developer. After the program, one thing led to another. We exchanged contacts. Stuff happened, and 6 months later, we were in a relationship.
I got engaged to her after 2 years of dating. She is the perfect definition of “God when”. I loved her with all my heart and I was ready for a long-lasting commitment with her. She also showered me with love and intelligent ideas. My parents treated her like a daughter.
What Changed?
A lot of things changed ooo. When we started dating, we promised not to have sex until we are married.
I’m a devoted Christian and she is a Sunday school teacher in her church. I was happy that I finally met someone who aligns with me spiritually.
We do pray together. We have a designated day for our fasting and retreat. Not until one day, I went to her place for our usual retreat.
And what happened?
She was in the kitchen cooking for us. So, I went to the bedroom so that I could shower and relax my head before eating and preparing for the retreat.
I opened her wardrobe to keep my clothes when I noticed five black penis toys of different sizes. I was shocked.
I hurriedly closed the wardrobe and left for the sitting room. She was using a room and parlour self-contain apartment, and that was how I saw those non-living penises in her wardrobe.
We ate and started our retreat at around 10pm. We were to stop at midnight. I won’t lie, my mind was not in the prayer. I was imagining what I saw in her wardrobe, and I kept asking myself different questions.
Questions like what, Adeyemi?
What happened? What changed?
Did I do something wrong? What would she be using those sex toys for?
Maybe it is for her weird friend (Jolade).
How did you know she cheated on you?
I already cleared my mind that the toys were for Jolade and not my babe.
After the retreat, we went to bed and slept off. I woke up around 10 a.m and couldn’t find her in the bedroom, and she wasn’t in the bathroom either. I went to bed and prayed, thinking she is probably in the kitchen cooking for us.
After 30 minutes, I decided to go check on her in the kitchen and sitting room. Guess what? I met her in the kitchen, praying fervently and sweating profusely. I decided not to disturb her and went to the bedroom.
I was with her till evening. I was packing my bags and went to wait for her in the sitting room since she was in the kitchen helping me pack food.
All of a sudden, I noticed that the kitchen door was closed. I was in a hurry to go home because I had to meet a friend.
I opened the kitchen door angrily, trying to tell her I was late for my meeting. On opening the door, I met my babe with the biggest of the penises in her vagina, moaning and sweating.
Ah! That must have been shocking
It was shocking. I was feeling dizzy all of a sudden.
I had to sit down and relax. I drank water to calm my nerves.
What did you do?
Before I uttered any statement, she was on her knees begging me and explaining herself. I left her house angry.
I kept thinking about what I could have done wrong to deserve that. She agreed we both stay off sex until we are married. Why would she cheat on me? Not even with a human, a non-living penis!
Are you guys still dating?
We are just on a conversation level, but I have already made up my mind not to date her again. I will have to withdraw my proposal.
But what do you think is wrong with using a dildo?
I don’t know, but I don’t expect that from my woman. Why would she be using a dildo? I feel like I’m not enough for her. I’m in pain.
Butterflies is an anonymous talk segment of Kloutbox that touches on a series of sexual and love aspects of people’s lives.
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Editor’s Note: At the request of our sources, the names and visual in this article have been changed to protect their identities.
